Do not refrain when you desire to complain; but I would wish that this be done to God with a filial spirit, as a tender child does to its mother; for provided it be done lovingly, there is no danger in complaining, or in asking a cure, or in changing place, or in being comforted; only do it with love and resignation into the arms of the most holy will of God.
--St. Francis de Sales, Consoling Thoughts
